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Via MBA@UNC MBA Online &amp;amp; Women 2.0</title><description>Like I was saying&amp;#8230;.
Via MBA@UNC MBA Online &amp;amp; Women 2.0</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/21047115933</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/21047115933</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2012 18:45:02 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Tonight I thinkno poetrywill serve—Adrienne Rich</title><description>Tonight I thinkno poetrywill serve—Adrienne Rich</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/20107325573</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/20107325573</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2012 02:28:00 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>RIP ~ Adrienne Rich</title><description>RIP ~ Adrienne Rich: If you don’t know, you should take the time to read the above link and...</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/20106409462</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/20106409462</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2012 01:53:29 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>One of my favorite hoodie photos in support of justice for...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1aud3KvZ31qz85gao1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;One of my favorite hoodie photos in support of &lt;span class="hasCaption"&gt;justice for Trayvon Martin. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/19739387712</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/19739387712</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Mar 2012 14:36:39 -0400</pubDate><category>Trayvon Martin</category><category>Justice</category><category>HLS</category><category>Harvard</category></item><item><title>When SXSW Comes Face To Face With Austin's Homeless</title><description>When SXSW Comes Face To Face With Austin's Homeless: Unless you’ve been living under a rock,...</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/19305734356</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/19305734356</guid><pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2012 17:09:00 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>This video kills me.  California Attorney General Kamala Harris,...</title><description>&lt;embed src="http://c.brightcove.com/services/viewer/federated_f8/271557391" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" flashvars="videoId=1499998349001&amp;linkBaseURL=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.thedailybeast.com%2Fvideos%2F2012%2F03%2F10%2Fkamala-and-maya-harris-on-obama-and-sisterhood.html&amp;playerId=271557391&amp;viewerSecureGatewayURL=https://console.brightcove.com/services/amfgateway&amp;servicesURL=http://services.brightcove.com/services&amp;cdnURL=http://admin.brightcove.com&amp;domain=embed&amp;autoStart=false&amp;" base="http://admin.brightcove.com" name="flashObj" width="400" height="339" seamlesstabbing="false" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" swliveconnect="true" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;This video kills me.  California Attorney General Kamala Harris, and her sister Maya, VP for Democracy, Rights and Justice at the Ford Foundation - being first off adorable, and then being fierce.  Taken at Newsweek/The Daily Beast’s recent &lt;a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2012/03/10/mother-knows-best-the-kamala-sisters-on-how-mommy-led-them-to-law.html" target="_blank"&gt;Women In The World Power Summit&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/19280750125</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/19280750125</guid><pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2012 02:08:46 -0400</pubDate><category>Kamala Harris</category><category>Newsweek/Daily Beast</category><category>Fierceness</category><category>Yes!</category></item><item><title>The best International Women’s Day story, told through...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0kzvr6Us31qz85gao1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;The best International Women’s Day story, &lt;a href="http://annfriedman.com/blog/slutty-women-gifable-0" target="_blank"&gt;told through GIFs&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/18957834507</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/18957834507</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 14:38:15 -0500</pubDate><category>Yes</category></item><item><title>This!</title><description>This!: “There’s still more diversity in the color of anchors’ ties than in the racial and...</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/17786174716</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/17786174716</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 17:33:00 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>This photo is literally the one used for “lesbian”...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lyzlqqBxiu1qz85gao1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;This photo is literally the one used for “lesbian” on Wikipedia. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In related news - &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesbian" target="_blank"&gt;the wiki article&lt;/a&gt; on “lesbian” is very informative!  Even for a gay history geek like myself, who likes to think I would have already known all of that.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/17164346956</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/17164346956</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 14:49:00 -0500</pubDate><category>hahaha</category><category>lesbian!</category><category>history</category><category>wiki</category><category>learning things</category></item><item><title>Fuck The Dude Up</title><description>Fuck The Dude Up: This McSweeney’s column is my favorite piece of writing right now. I feel...</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/17049889764</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/17049889764</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 16:11:00 -0500</pubDate><category>Esme Barerra</category><category>Women</category><category>community</category><category>self-defense</category><category>Fuck The Dude Up</category><category>safety</category></item><item><title>Yes to this today</title><description>Responsibility - by Grace Paley
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It is the responsibility of society to let the poet be a poetIt is...</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/15736808384</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/15736808384</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 16:14:19 -0500</pubDate><category>Cassandra</category><category>Grace Paley</category><category>Poets</category><category>YES</category></item><item><title>A Thing I'd Like</title><description>Lately I&amp;#8217;ve been thinking about how I want to force everyone I love to make me a mix-tape...</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/15258219736</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/15258219736</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 17:03:00 -0500</pubDate><category>Things you think about while writing forever and ever</category><category>MixTapes!</category><category>The sound of you</category><category>Georgia O'Keeffe</category></item><item><title>OWS, Hindu goddesses, Elizabeth Warren, Kamala Harris, disruptive innovation, etc!</title><description>OWS, Hindu goddesses, Elizabeth Warren, Kamala Harris, disruptive innovation, etc!: Recently I was...</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/13977411207</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/13977411207</guid><pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2011 14:44:31 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Is everybody aware that Miley Cyrus made an Occupy video?  No,...</title><description>&lt;iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/Ovs0fpFgeqw?wmode=transparent&amp;autohide=1&amp;egm=0&amp;hd=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;rel=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Is everybody aware that Miley Cyrus made an Occupy video?  No, really.  She made this video. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/13412372716</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/13412372716</guid><pubDate>Sun, 27 Nov 2011 14:36:27 -0500</pubDate><category>Mindblown Again</category></item><item><title>Mind blowing of the day #3
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Once upon a time, on this site,...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luz5du53CW1qz85gao1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Mind blowing of the day #3&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Once upon a time, on this site, long ago, before I took down the old archives, I posted my favorite chapter from Italo Calvino’s Invisible Cities.  Here it is:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt; Trading Cities 4 .&lt;br/&gt;In Ersilia, to establish the relationships that  sustain the city’s life, the inhabitants stretch strings from the  corners of the houses, white or black or gray or black-and-white  according to whether they mark a relationdhip of blood, of trade,  authority, agency.  When the strings become so numerous that you can no  longer pass among them, the inhabitants leave: the houses are  dismantled; only the strings and their supports remain. &lt;br/&gt;From a mountainside, camping with their  household goods, Ersilia’s refugees look at the labyrinth of taut  strings and poles that rise in the plain.  That is the city of Ersilia  still, and they are nothing.  &lt;br/&gt;They rebuild Ersilia elsewhere.  They weave a  similar pattern of strings which they would like to be more complex and  at the same time more regular than the other.  Then they abandon it and  take themselves and their houses still farther away. &lt;br/&gt;Thus, when traveling in the territory of  Ersilia, you come upon the ruins of abandoned cities, without the walls  which do not last, without the bones of the dead which the wind rolls  away: spiderwebs of intricate relationships seeking a form.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I was thinking, again, of this chapter today.  The little secret something something I’m working on these days is truly made possible only through the amazing web of brilliant and wonderful people I know all over the place.  And we have spent years building threads and circling back and supporting each other’s visions - tied together in some shared grand endeavor, connected throughout open space. &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;One of the most precious people in my life has often not lived in the same city as I.  One night, long ago, as I sat sweltering on a late summer rooftop on St. Marks Place, she drove along the darkened highways of Northern California and offered up an analysis of the tread that connects her heart to mine, and the lack of difference distance and time makes to the strength of that fabric.  Is sustains, regardless of those other logistics.  It is always there.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Those threads are all over and in so many forms, and are a beautiful vision that daily haunts me as to how the world created with so many people I love takes form. And how we sustain and grow through the connections, breathing life into each other’s places and endeavors.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;And so I searched the internet to see if I could find the text of the chapter to reread.  And, I did.  But then I also found a series of images including the above, where artists used the concept of the chapter in recreations throughout Berlin!  Just gorgeous!  And so so wonderful!  &lt;a href="http://unurth.com/74155/Ersilia-Berlin" target="_blank"&gt;Here is the link to more pictures. &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Mind successfully blown once again.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/13073213243</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/13073213243</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2011 14:41:00 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Mindblowing of the day #1 and #2
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Recently a friend sent me a...</title><description>&lt;iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/AEtXnqS1uhs?wmode=transparent&amp;autohide=1&amp;egm=0&amp;hd=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;rel=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Mindblowing of the day #1 and #2&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Recently a friend sent me a link to &lt;a href="http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2011/11/07/111107fa_fact_max?currentPage=all" target="_blank"&gt;this New Yorker article&lt;/a&gt;, with the statement  “I don’t know - something about the mixture of intelligence, wolves, and the arts made me think of you.”&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Of course I had to read it.  And so I just discovered the incredible brilliance of Helene Grimaud - the beautiful, eccentric pianist who is obsessed with wolves, and in her spare time runs a conservatory for them in upstate New York.  Reading the article also introduced me to the amazing fact that &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Synesthesia" target="_blank"&gt;Synesthesia&lt;/a&gt; is a thing.  I had no idea that everyone didn’t see colors when they hear music, or hear sounds when they see silent movement, or any of the other multiple sensory overlap experiences synesthesia covers!  I mean, really??  Everyone does do that, right?  Right?  Mindblown all over the place.  (The sound of a mind being blown is very colorful, btw.) &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/13072219471</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/13072219471</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2011 14:21:16 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>New technologies allowed Angela Gheorghiu to duet with a prior...</title><description>&lt;object width="400" height="321"&gt;&#13;
	&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/video/embed" /&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /&gt;&lt;param name="flashvars" value="endpoint=http://www.guardian.co.uk/music/video/2011/nov/02/angela-gheorghiu-habanera-carmen-video/json" /&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.guardian.co.uk/video/embed" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="400" height="321" flashvars="endpoint=http://www.guardian.co.uk/music/video/2011/nov/02/angela-gheorghiu-habanera-carmen-video/json"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;New technologies allowed Angela Gheorghiu to duet with a prior recording of Maria Callas, singing Habanera from  Bizet’s Carmen.  Amazing. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/12765136774</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/12765136774</guid><pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 19:43:23 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Still life with purple car, hanging in New Orleans edition</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lt67goCU8B1qz85gao1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Still life with purple car, hanging in New Orleans edition&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/11532289316</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/11532289316</guid><pubDate>Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:02:48 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>In which my neglected blog slowly turns into a place where I...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lspsmeI2tz1qz85gao1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;In which my neglected blog slowly turns into a place where I just post random pictures of my car in various locations.  Here she is found imagining herself a part of a Georgia O’Keeffe painting, outside the landscape surrounding O’Keeffe’s former home at Ghost Ranch. &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;(In addition to driving about in the car incarnation of Prince’s spirit, I’m actually at work on lots of exciting new things being born in a manner that I can’t yet quite publish about.  But, we’ll see, perhaps this old blog will have new life once all that gets up and publicly running.  In the meantime: car trip pics!)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/11152489219</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/11152489219</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 17:20:00 -0400</pubDate><category>Road trips!</category><category>Georgia O'Keeffe</category><category>Ghost Ranch</category></item><item><title>This hot number and I are starting our relationship out with...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lqwi24jP431qz85gao1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;This hot number and I are starting our relationship out with several thousand miles on the open road, visiting all the major music cities in America.  Here she is in front of one of Dolly Parton’s homes in Nashville, next to Dolly’s massive pink recording complex. After posing for this shoot, the blasted music turned from Dolly to Cash, while driving out towards that lake house he shared with June, which burnt down a few years ago.  The night ended in some tiny hidden honky tonk where f’ing Adele (stop it!!) was hanging out, doing research for her next album, which she wants to have more twang in. &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Purple car + open road + endless music history + present everything wonderfulness = heaven.   (Thanks universe, love you back!)  Onward!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/9706862090</link><guid>http://butnotmine.tumblr.com/post/9706862090</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Sep 2011 11:08:00 -0400</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
